This is hard. Here's a way through it.

Sandy is an AI companion that guides you through evidence-based tools — boundaries, 12-step work, DBT skills — designed for people navigating separation, betrayal, and the hardest moments of life.

No signup needed. Always private.

🔒 Nothing you say is stored. Zero retention.

Your privacy is the foundation

This is for the moments you wouldn't post about. Sandy was built around zero retention — nothing you say is ever stored server-side. No account required to start. No data to leak. Just tools when you need them.

How it works

No app to download. No intake form. Just show up.

1

Tell Sandy what's going on

Not sure where to start? Sandy asks a few questions and figures out what you need. Two minutes, no pressure.

2

Get matched to a tool

Boundaries. 12 Steps. DEAR MAN. Whatever fits this moment. Each tool is a structured conversation, not a worksheet.

3

Work through it with guidance

Step by step, 5 to 15 minutes. Sandy guides you through it. Come back tomorrow, start something new, or pick up where you left off.

Tools for what you're actually facing

Not a feature list. A way through.

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A conversation you've been dreading

Get clear on what you need to say and how to say it.
Boundaries · 15 min
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Something you need to ask for

State your request with clarity and confidence.
DEAR MAN · 10 min
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A pattern that keeps coming back

Work through one situation across all 12 steps.
12 Steps · 15 min
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Not sure what you're feeling right now

Scan your well-being in five dimensions.
PEMSS Check-In · 5 min

Feeling off but can't name it

Quick check-in: Hungry, Angry, Lonely, Tired, or Stressed?
HALT/HALTS · 5 min
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Not sure where to start

Tell Sandy what's going on and get a recommendation.
Help Me Choose · 2 min

Who it's for

For people navigating separation and divorce. For anyone working through betrayal. For the moments when therapy feels too far away and friends don't know what to say. For anyone who needs a guide — not more generic advice.

Start now

3 free sessions. No credit card. Always private.

Create a free account to save your progress — no pressure.